Hi,

One of the more common letters I get is: "Hi, my name is John Doe. I visit Atlanta often, and was hoping to maybe meet you for dinner or a drink. Please let me know if you are interested".

That actually sounds nice in its intent, but considering it takes me about three hours to get ready "en fem", am I going to get excited about responding to it? The writer has the opportunity (via my web page) to know a lot about me. He tells me nothing about himself - except he'd like to meet for a drink. Time is a very precious to most girls (remember, we've got two lives to live!). Sharing it with someone has got to seem like it will be worthwhile!

I know it takes time to write a "heart felt" letter. I also know it feels frustrating to invest time, and not get a response. However, it takes an investment to get any sort of return. Most girls are very nice, and will respond to anyone who takes the time to write a sincere letter - regardless if they feel you are a good match.

If you are in sales, you already know the time and cost of getting a good lead. You know not to take a rejection personally, and you realize getting an account is a percentage ball game. This same attitude is helpful in finding a t-girl on line.

- Renée